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Write the Eulogy Before the Funeral: The ADAPT Framework for Letting a Leader Go

Why the hardest decision on your leadership team should start months before you make it — and how to take the emotion out of it.
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Quick answer: Letting a senior leader go? The ADAPT framework helps founders plan the exit with structure instead of dread.

By Andreas Pettersson, founder of Leaders ADAPT and a former Canon executive who has built and scaled multiple companies.

Every founder eventually faces it. A senior leader who looked right on day one isn’t working out. The signals are there. Everyone on the team can feel the drag. And yet the decision sits, for weeks, sometimes quarters, because no one wants to be the one to move on it.

When the team finally does act, it acts on a single decision: the exit. And that’s exactly where most leadership teams get it wrong.

Managing the firing is the easy part. Managing everything around it, and everything after it, is the work.

This is a real situation we recently walked a founding team through (anonymized here, as always). Two co-founders, one senior leader who needed to go, and a lot of understandable hesitation. What follows is the approach we gave them. We call it ADAPT, five moves that turn the most dreaded decision on your calendar into something you can actually plan.

A- Assess before you act

Before you hire a replacement and before you let anyone go, ask one disciplined question as a team:

What could we have done better?

Not to relitigate the past or hand out blame, to extract the lesson while it’s still vivid enough to be honest. You are about to make a consequential new hire. The worst time to learn what you got wrong is after you’ve hired their replacement and repeated the same mistake.

Do this first. Everything downstream gets sharper because of it.

D- Date the decision

Pick the date. The end of a quarter, a specific day on the calendar, it doesn’t matter which, only that you name it and agree on it together.

Then answer two questions:

  1. What needs to be true for us not to make this change?
  2. What needs to be true for us to execute it?

A date is the single most underrated tool in a hard decision. It converts a vague, swirling dread into a concrete project with a deadline. Instead of ruminating, you start working backwards, and the emotional journey becomes far easier to move through because it now has an end point and a path.

A- Align the leaders

This is the exercise to run today, before any decision is executed, and to run it separately.

Each leader writes down, independently:

  • What this person did well
  • What they did exceptionally
  • Where they genuinely fell short

Then you compare notes.

The goal here is subtle and important: the goal is not consensus. You do not have to agree on everything. The goal is to get these judgments out of your individual heads and onto a shared table, to align proactively, before the pressure of the moment, rather than reactively, in the middle of it.

While you’re aligning, write your leadership manifesto, the explicit do’s and don’ts of how you lead and who you’ll bring in next. Agree on it now, regardless of how this specific situation resolves. It becomes the standard every future hire is measured against.

Teams that do this make fewer mistakes going forward. And the ones they do make hurt less, because the team was aligned before things got hard.

P- Protect the business

Now work backwards from the date you set.

Knowledge transfer. What needs to be documented? By whom? Transferred to whom? Be specific. Some knowledge transfers to you, the founders. Some requires a new person, which means you need to know who you’re hiring and what date they have to be in the building for the transfer to happen in time, alongside the interviews and everything else. This is how you spread risk instead of concentrating it.

Redundancy. Stress-test your three-legged stool. What happens if one of your key people gets sick? Turns out to be the wrong hire? Decides to leave? Build the backup plans and the redundancy before you execute on the main move, not after you’ve already pulled a leg out from under the stool.

T- Transition with intent

Two questions almost every team skips:

Who delivers the message? Decide it explicitly. Rehearse it. The honest, direct conversation, the moment someone has to say here’s what has to change, and here’s what happens if it doesn’t, doesn’t get easier by being left to chance. Walk through it in your heads before it’s real.

What do the next 90 to 180 days look like? Most teams manage right up to the hire or the fire and then go blind. They forget to plan the aftermath. But the plan doesn’t end on the date, that’s where it begins. Do a little scenario planning. Build the future you’re transitioning into, not just the exit you’re transitioning out of.

The pre-mortem: do the post-mortem before the event

If you take one thing from ADAPT, take this.

Most organizations run a post-mortem after something goes wrong. The highest-performing leadership teams run it before, while they still have the power to change the outcome.

Writing down what your leader did well and where they fell short, now, before the decision is made, is a pre-mortem. So is naming the date. So is scenario-planning the aftermath. You are deliberately doing the reflection early, when it can still shape the result, instead of late, when all it can do is explain the damage.

Write the eulogy before the funeral. Run the autopsy before the event.

You will still make mistakes, every leader does. But you will make smaller ones, and you’ll make them aligned, because you did the hard thinking proactively instead of reactively.

That is the whole game. Adapt before you’re forced to.

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Frequently asked questions

How do you fire an underperforming leader?

Decide clearly, communicate honestly and privately, protect the team and the person dignity, and handle the transition cleanly. No surprises, no dragging it out.

When should you let a leader go?

When performance or fit consistently falls short and clear feedback has not changed it. Holding on out of loyalty usually costs the company more.

What is the ADAPT framework for letting a leader go?

A structured way to make the decision, communicate it, and protect the organization, so a hard exit strengthens the team rather than destabilizing it.

What does write the eulogy before the funeral mean for firing a leader?

It is the post’s pre-mortem: before you act, write how this ends, the reasons, the impact, and what good looks like. Doing the post-mortem in advance forces clarity and removes emotion from the moment. If you cannot articulate the eulogy honestly, the post says you are not ready to make the call.

How do you protect the business when letting a leader go?

The post’s Protect step means securing continuity before the exit: knowledge, relationships, systems, and team stability. You plan for the gap the departure creates so the business does not absorb a shock. Letting someone go without protecting the business turns a people decision into an operational one.

How do you transition with intent after firing a leader?

The post’s Transition step is about a deliberate handoff: clear communication to the team, a plan for the work, and dignity for the person leaving. Intent means nothing is left to chance or rumor. A managed transition preserves trust with the people who remain and protects the outgoing leader’s dignity.

Walking through the ADAPT steps

Letting a senior leader go is higher-stakes than any other exit because their reach is wide and the team is watching closely. The discipline is to decide clearly before emotion or loyalty clouds it, acknowledge honestly what is and is not working, plan the transition of their responsibilities before the conversation, and protect both the person dignity and the team stability through the change. Rushing it creates chaos; dragging it out erodes trust in your judgment. Done deliberately, a hard exit at the top resets standards for everyone.

After the decision

Communicate the change to the team quickly and calmly, without relitigating the person failures. Reassure people about ownership of the work and the path forward, and move fast to stabilize the gap so momentum does not stall. The same forward-looking standard that prevents most of these situations is covered in accountability without blame, and the mechanics of doing any exit properly are in the necessity of firing and how to do it properly.

See also leadership-burnout and what-is-leadership-ceo-definition-that-scales.

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Andreas Pettersson

Andreas Pettersson

Former Canon CEO. Founded and exited Arcules, an AI company backed by Canon and Milestone. Today he coaches CEOs and executives through Leaders ADAPT.

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