How to build self worth when your confidence depends on the last result
Self esteem goes up and down with the quarter. Self worth is the floor underneath it, the part that does not move when a deal falls through or a hire does not work out. Most high performers have built the first and never built the second.
The Transformative Power of Self-Worth is a free guide to building that floor. It is not about becoming someone else. It is about fully accepting who you already are, and it gives you 8 strategies to practise until that acceptance holds.
Each strategy comes with a here is how to start section, so nothing in it stays abstract.
What is inside The Transformative Power of Self-Worth
Eight strategies, each with practical ways to begin.
- Strategy 1, notice and reflect on your positive traits
- Strategy 2, engage in supportive self talk
- Strategy 3, prioritise your physical and mental wellbeing: sleep, movement, nutrition and mental health
- Strategy 4, curate a supportive environment: positive connections, boundaries and mutual support
- Strategy 5, embrace growth over perfection
- Strategy 6, practise kindness, toward yourself and others
- Strategy 7, practise self acceptance and forgiveness
- Strategy 8, set and maintain healthy boundaries: clarify your values, communicate directly, enforce them
Who this free guide is for
If you are looking for a confidence trick before a big meeting, this is not it. Confidence is a result of the work in here, not a substitute for it.
If you are successful by every external measure and still hear a critic in your head that no result silences, this was written for you.
How to use it
Start with strategy 2. Self talk is the one you can change today, and the guide gives you replacement sentences to use. Strategy 8, boundaries, is the one that changes how other people treat you.
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Questions people ask before downloading
What is the difference between self worth and self esteem?
Self esteem is how you evaluate yourself, and it rises and falls with results. Self worth is the underlying belief that you have value regardless of results. The guide builds the second so the first stops running your decisions.
How long does it take to build self worth?
The guide describes it as an ongoing journey rather than a destination. The 8 strategies are habits, and the ones around self talk and boundaries show a difference inside weeks.
Is this guide for leaders specifically?
It was written by a former CEO for the people he coaches, most of whom lead companies or teams. The strategies are universal, but the examples assume you carry responsibility for other people.
About the author
Andreas Pettersson is the founder of Leaders ADAPT. He built a company from zero to over 150 people, sold it to Canon and became their youngest standalone CEO. He now coaches founders and executives on leading without being the bottleneck. This guide is free, the download arrives by email within a minute, and you can measure where you stand first with the free leadership assessments.